With the Full Moon in Aries and the Sun in Libra, Oct 23rd, it is time to bring balance to our individual life and our relationships. It can be too easy for us to swing from one extreme to the other; this brings frustration and exhaustion.
On the one side we become too heavily immersed in the other person, getting totally identified with their life, their goals and their world. We start to take on their identity, being a shadow. This is where we lose our self identity. The reaction from this is to move to the complete opposite point of going it alone, doing our own thing, being fiercely independent. This satisfies our need to consolidate our self identity but if we linger here too long it brings loneliness and isolation. Both extremes are excessive, it’s the balance that we need. It is healthy for our relationships that we maintain some independence, it is strengthening for our individual identity that we share activities with others. Therefore the balance of the two together is the ideal point to live by. This Full Moon is bringing us an awareness of such. Make sure you have time with others, enjoying the sharing of tasks and activities followed by time on your own, doing what you love to do.